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Friday, May 1, 2009

Yes I'm Still Here!

Hello everyone! I apologize for not posting lately. The truth is I've been very busy between work, kids and our adoption. Let me start by telling everyone how extremely happy I am. Our agency asks all parents that have accepted a referral to put together a Welcome Bag for their child. The Welcome Bag should consist of a family t-shirt that depicts each member of the family, a family photo album that has pictures of everyone, our home, any pets and his/her new room, a few personal items and of course a letter to your child.

Two days ago, we received a picture of her receiving her Welcome Bag. She had the most beautiful smile and was wearing her t-shirt and looking through the family photo album. I would love to post a picture but its against agency rules to do so until you pass court and the child is officially your child (so I follow the rules!)... I also received an email that stated she was pulled out of class right before her lunch break and was given her welcome bag. She carefully examined the photo album and immediately put on her t-shirt. Apparently there was another older girl that also received her welcome bag along with Letarik, after they received their bags they sat together and reviewed each other's family albums.

I can only imagine how she must be feeling right now. To be 11 years old and really not know where it is your going to be living and with whom. She's probably wondering who I am and how I will be. To leave everything you know, your culture, your language, your friends and to come to a new Country has to be seriously overwhelming. I will surly be comforting, soothing and giving her 100% of my time until she feels comfortable and secure.

I promise to post new pictures of the kiddos on Sunday night. They are growing like weeds. Julian is almost at tall as JR these days!!!

I won't be a stranger and I promise to try and keep this blog updated!!!

2 comments:

Kim said...

I am so excited for your family and your new daughter! This is so exciting - best wishes for a speedy process.

Ana said...

Bibi!

That is just such wonderful news that she received her Welcome Bag. Yes, you are very correct that it must be extremely overwhelming -- and it is a wonderful thing that you are sensitive to how she must be feeling and available to support her as she transitions and adjusts.

Hope to see you soon!! And yes, don't be a stranger!!! Blog! Blog! Blog!!!